I Love My Church – Events

I love CROSSROADS CHURCH. It is an amazing place with amazing people. Many have had their lives transformed through the community of CROSSROADS. Some people in society ask: “What’s the church good for? Why would anyone love the church?”
 
Organized religion (and in particular churches) get very little respect anymore. Sometimes Christians haven’t made the church look all that appealing. Some have committed great sins and used the organization as cover. And some believers simply haven’t shown much Christ-like love. However, just because some believers have failed does not mean the concept of “organized religion” or the church as a whole is fatally flawed and should be rejected.
 
There are great blessings that come from being attached to a spiritual family, and I’m excited during the next four weeks to talk about some of those blessings with you. The main reason I love the church is because of Jesus. It’s because Christ loves the church and gave himself up for her. God apparently loves “organized religion.”
 
The body of Christ – the Church – is amazing when the Church lives how Jesus calls us to live. God created us to be in community. When you are part of a church community, you have a chance to pass on the hope you have to the sufferers and strugglers around you. But you can’t do that if your spirituality is bottled up into a silent, personal thing. We were built for interaction with one another. There is no mention of solo Christians in Scripture. We’re made to be puzzle pieces – beautiful, colorful, with only part of the overall divine design. Together we become God’s masterpiece. I love my church. My prayer as pastor is you love it too.
 
Some key events in our “I LOVE MY CHURCH” series.
  1. Worship Series and Small Group Series on: Fellowship, Worship, Service and Giving.

 

  1. I Love My Church information meetings – Hear about the future plans at CROSSROADS and have an opportunity to ask questions regarding the church budget and directions for ministry. This will be at all small groups the week following October 21st. Then a larger meeting will be taking place following service on October 28th.

 

  1. I Love My Church Celebration Service with luncheon and combined campuses on November 11th at 9:30. Guest preacher Rev. Don Eslinger.

 

  1. I Love My Church Youth Sunday – November 18th – Hear the new youth band lead worship and participate in special confirmation service and renewal of baptisms.

 

Fall Finance Campaign

October 14th – Message series begins (pledge cards are available)

October 24th – Info gathering at small groups (in homes)

October 28th – Info gathering at the church following service

November 11th – Celebration Sunday- Meal, collect pledges, guest speaker: Don Eslinger, all-church photo

November 12-17 – Follow up from Celebration Service



I Love My Church

“And they devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and the prayers. And awe came upon every soul, and many wonders and signs were being done through the apostles. And all who believed were together and had all things in common. And they were selling their possessions and belongings and distributing the proceeds to all, as any had need. And day by day, attending the temple together and breaking bread in their homes, they received their food with glad and generous hearts, praising God and having favor with all the people. And the Lord added to their number day by day those who were being saved.” – Acts 2:42-44

A lot of people don’t realize fellowship is a spiritual discipline. It’s not just something helpful, but something commanded. And one of the surest barometers of the quality of your Christian life is the quality of your Christian relationships. Acts 2:42-44 summarizes the life of the early church by saying, “They devoted (or they continued steadfastly) in the apostles’ teaching and to the fellowship.” Now what is fellowship? Fellowship basically means, “our common life together.” The Greek word for fellowship is “KOINONIA”. Koinonia is translated in the New Testament as partnership or sharing. Sometimes it’s translated “communion” or “fellowship”. Fellowship is a relationship between individuals which involves, and this is key, ACTIVE participation in a common interest. As a result of our participation in the common interest, we have a residual interest in one another.

I grew up thinking fellowship was something that happened after the worship service down in the church basement, with lemonade, coffee, and superficial conversations. That’s not what made the early church so powerful. They took fellowship to a new level—the level we want to be at. They showed love to each other, because they loved each other! We are one church who does ministry in many locations bound together by a common purpose. As we engage in that common purpose, the relationships that are the result of that engagement produce fellowship. What holds all of this together is the Spirit of God working through the Word of God, and our service to God binds us together in love toward one another. That is what fellowship really is; our common life together. And it deepens as we persist in our common life together.
 
Prayer – Gracious and loving God, You included fellowship as a key component of the church. Forgive us for trivializing fellowship. Help us not to be satisfied with counterfeit fellowship, but to seek You together. Lord, we want the world to see our love for one another, and the genuine common life You intend for Your people. May we all share in the kind of fellowship that brings glory to you. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
 

In Christ’s love and service,

Pastor Paul Marzahn



Like Glue – Stinking With Context

“Now Israel loved Joseph more than any other of his sons, because he was the son of his old age. And he made him a robe of many colors.” – ‭‭Genesis‬ ‭37:3‬ ‭ESV‬‬

 

A young mother felt challenged year after year to keep her two children’s birthdays “fair.” Although the kids were born two years apart, they were born on the same day of the year. When they were little, they enjoyed sharing a birthday party. However, as they got older, each child wanted their own special party. And inevitably, every year, one party always seemed to turn out better than the other. One child always felt like they had the bad party, while their sibling enjoyed the awesome party.

 

It doesn’t have to be that way. We can learn to keep our hearts and minds so full of joy for one another that there’s no room left for jealousy! Model for your kids an attitude of gratitude for all of the blessings that God bestows on us as a family. Tear down petty jealousies between members of your own family. Demonstrate how we can keep our words positive and uplifting. Create a family atmosphere that constantly cheers on the blessings that others receive, both in your family and outside your family.
 
 
Understanding context is important for interpreting our relationships. It is the lens we view things through. Joseph was given a special coat and was loved by his father very much. This jealousy affected the relationships with his siblings. From the outside we can see why they treated Joseph poorly. The context was one of jealousy. As we work to strengthen our relationships we need look at the context so we can make our relationships stick. May you work through any issues of misunderstanding context in your relationships this week. May you fully engage how God’s love can heal any of the hurts in your life.
 
 

In Christ’s love and service,

Pastor Paul Marzahn



Like Glue – Sticking With Communication

“I tell you, on the day of judgment people will give account for every careless word they speak,”  Matthew‬ ‭12:36‬ ‭ESV‬‬

“WATCH YOUR MOUTH!” is a phrase I heard from my mom sometimes growing up. “WATCH YOUR MOUTH!” was used as a reminder for my siblings and I to stay within the communication boundaries of respect and honesty. I remember my dad correcting men on his construction crew if they cursed. He even fired one man who could not keep his mouth under control.

There have probably been times in your life when you’ve said things that were hurtful towards yourself or others. In an age of social media we can do it with pictures, memes, or hateful speech. We all need to watch our mouths because the words we speak (or post) have long lasting impact. “Bullying” use to mean a kid who physically beat someone up. Now we see bullying behavior more frequently through words. The term “cyber bully” is now well known for people who use technology to be mean and abusive on the internet or even through texting. We may all be surprised how much our words affect others.
 
Scripture warns us against carelessly using words. We are shown the effect of the tongue’s power. Words can teach, encourage, and uplift. They also can discourage, reject, and demean. Words can express gratitude, love, and joy. They also can express selfishness, hate, and despondency. Our aim is to speak what God says about our situations and not what our inconsistent emotions force out of our mouths. My prayer for you this week is to allow God’s words of love to flow through you. May we all use words that heal rather than hurt.

In Christ’s love and service,

Pastor Paul Marzahn



Like Glue – Stick With Love

“Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony.” – Colossians 3:12-14 ESV
 
I am asked by the youth of our church and sometimes even adults how I would define LOVE. Many in our culture answer this differently than I think God defines love.
 
Some experts in our society say it is romance. Some say it is bliss. It is one of those words in our English language that have so many meanings to choose from. Dictionary.com defines it as: “A profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person. A feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection, as for a parent, child, or friend”. The experts define love as mere emotions or feeling, but isn’t love something more real? Though those definitions are nice and apply in some circumstances I believe love is so much more.
 
I was checking out at the grocery store last night and saw a popular magazine cover. It stated “3 Ways To Demonstrate To A Man You Love Him.” I didn’t read the story, but from what I could tell it was focusing on “making love” and demonstrating physical affection to “get a man.” Although physical attraction is a part of love there is still so much more to a love that helps a relationship stick.
 
To be honest with you, I have yet to find any better definition of what love is than in the following verses:
 
But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”  – Romans 5:8
 
“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.” – 1 Corinthians 13:4-7
 
In Colossians 3 the Apostle Paul reminds us that Love binds everything together. Love makes our emotions and physical attraction stick. Love is more than emotions Love is so much more beautiful than momentary bliss. It is so much more powerful than physical passion. There is not a word to describe what love truly is. All I can say is that Jesus loves you, and it is not the kind of love the world knows. It is a love of self sacrifice. May we live a life of love that meets the needs of others more than our own. May we move beyond emotions to a life of true love.

 

In Christ’s love and service,

Pastor Paul Marzahn



Like Glue – Stick With Forgiveness

“Anyone whom you forgive, I also forgive. Indeed, what I have forgiven, if I have forgiven anything, has been for your sake in the presence of Christ,” – 2 Corinthians‬ ‭2:10‬ ‭ESV‬‬

Forgiveness is is never easy. It starts with an offense.

I was reflecting today on the hurts I have inflicted on others and the hurts that have I felt. The hurts often have to do with expectations. We are hurt by people who do not do what we expect them to do. We invest our lives in our career and yet we do not get a pay raise or recognition by our employer. We invest in our children continually sacrificing time and finances, yet they take our investment for granted. We invest in a friendship and later discover a friend has shared a confidence or gossiped behind our back. Our expectations are not met and we feel offended.

Sometimes we hurt because of annoyances, other times disappointments and occasionally disloyalty. Peter was disloyal to Jesus when he denied Him three times publicly and yet Jesus forgave him and restored him to ministry. Jesus let Peter know in spite of his disloyal behavior He still loved him. Jesus reminded Peter to “feed his sheep” and to share about the kingdom of God. Betrayal and brutality can also rear their ugly head and make it even harder to forgive. It is not easy to forgive especially when someone has hurt us. Yet, Jesus and Paul both model this attitude.

In today’s Scripture, Paul is sharing with believers in Corinth about forgiveness. He reminds them that when someone is offending another and is corrected, they should also be forgiven.  He stated: “so you should rather turn to forgive and comfort him, or he may be overwhelmed by excessive sorrow. So I beg you to reaffirm your love for him.” Paul reminds us when we forgive we are to love as well. That is not easy yet we are called to a higher standard. May you grow in love this week to be able to forgive those you have offended you. May you also be quick to ask for forgiveness for those you have offended. Most of all, may you experience God’s overwhelming love and forgiveness.

In Christ’s love and forgiveness,

Pastor Paul Marzahn



Like Glue – Stick With Encouragment

“When he came and saw the grace of God, Barnabas was glad, and he encouraged them all to remain faithful to the Lord with steadfast purpose, for he was a good man, full of the Holy Spirit and of faith. And a great many people were added to the Lord.” ‭Acts‬ ‭11:23-24‬

We use carpet tile at CROSSROADS CHURCH and I was a part of the team that laid the original flooring. We took glue and brushed it on the concrete, then others came behind sticking the carpet to the floor. I have tried to remove some of the carpet tiles that have gotten stained to replace them. It is not easy. I literally have to pry them off the floor with a tool to detach them from the concrete. The carpet tiles stick so well because we used a strong adhesive. Relationships need a strong adhesive as well. In today’s culture, there are a lot of things pulling us apart from each other. There is a lot of negativity in our world and it seeps into how we treat one another. If we want our relationships to “stick like glue” we have to work on encouraging those around us.

Barnabas in today’s Scripture knew how to use encouragement to make his relationships stick. Barnabas had a given name which is Joseph of Cyprus. (See Acts 4:36). The Apostles recognize his gift and give him the nickname – “Barnabas” – which translates into “son of encouragement.” Apparently, he had developed a reputation for being someone who builds up others. God used Barnabas to bring Saul (later known as the Apostle Paul) to a place of prominence. Based on his past record, Saul wasn’t the kind of person Christians wanted to be around, unless they wanted to end up in jail or dead. Even though Saul’s heart had been changed completely through a personal encounter with Jesus, the believers in Jerusalem didn’t trust him. Barnabas saw Saul was a changed man so he encouraged him and vouched for him.  Barnabas also encouraged the apostles and believers to reconsider their skepticism of Saul and take a risk on this amazing rabbi. His encouragement changed Saul/Paul’s life and the early movement of Christ followers. You may not realize it, but your encouragement might change someone’s life as well.

May God use you as an instrument of His love to encourage someone this week. May you also receive encouragement this week to help your relationships stick like glue.

LIVE IT OUT

Say thanks: Express thanks to someone who has been an encouragement to you. Write a card or letter of encouragement. Reach out to someone and encourage them today.

Evaluate your day: Reflect on God and all the blessings you have been given. Think of ways to express your thanksgiving to God. Prayer, worship, financial giving, and service are a few ways to respond to blessings we have received.

In Christ’s love and service,

Pastor Paul Marzahn



Unplugged – Destress

“The Lord bless you and keep you; the Lord make his face shine on you and be gracious to you; the Lord turn his face toward you and give you peace.”

Did you know that stressed spelled backwards is “desserts?” I think God intended that whenever we are stressed that we should just eat more dessert. I don’t know about you but I feel stressed from time to time. During the week, Pastor Deb and I pray with and counsel a lot of people feeling stressed. Harris Interactive conducted an online survey of adults and young people ages 8 to 17 in August. Key findings include: stress is up. Most Americans are suffering from moderate to high stress, with 44 percent reporting their stress levels have increased over the past five years.

Some people cope with stress more effectively or recover from stressful events more quickly than others. There are different types of stress—all of which carry physical, mental, and spiritual risks. A stressor may be a one time or short term occurrence, or it can be an occurrence that keeps happening over a long period of time. Stress can motivate people to prepare or perform, like when they need to take a test or interview for a new job. Stress can even be life-saving in some situations. However, many times – over a prolonged period – stress can cause health concerns.

On Labor Day, my wife Deb and I drove to Camp Koronis to be a part of the Ground Breaking Ceremony for the new Tabernacle. Deb was asked to speak and pray at the beginning of the service. It was going to be a big crowd and the Bishop was preaching. Deb was stressed so therefore I was stressed. While I drove the two hours to Paynesville, Minnesota Deb practiced and edited her 8 minute speech about twenty times. I think I heard it enough to preach it myself. As soon as Deb walked up to talk I noticed a huge change in her occurred. She had “de-stressed”. She had let go of the anxiety and given it to God.

In today’s Scripture we see a prayer given by the Levitical priests. It is a reminder that ”God turns his face towards us and gives us peace.” May the God of peace relieve your stress this week. May you also turn to God this week and cast your cares upon Him.

In Christ’s love and service,

Pastor Paul Marzahn



Unplugged – Simplify

There is an old German folktale about the hands of God and creation. In this story God is creating humanity and sends His right hand into the world to take human form. The Right Hand of God contained all the truth and knowledge. God then sends His left hand into the world. That Hand is empty because it is seeking and searching. Man and woman are unfinished and therefore seek out the truth. One cannot receive the fullness of the Right Hand (truth and knowledge) except through the pilgrimage of the Left. A full Left Hand has no room to receive anything. Therefore, according to this story: fulfillment, peace, and perfection come about through a union of openness and fullness. Through emptying ourselves we are able to receive God’s insight into truth. I was raised on the illusion the more I stuffed into my life the more fulfilled I would become. Most of us are raised in a society that believes stuffing is “the way.”  The more activities we do the better we will feel. We put our kids into sports, dance, band, choir, drama, etc…. in the hopes we will provide happiness and fulfillment. We fill our lives with entertainment or work assuming we will find purpose. Even education can be an idol we worship. We forget simplicity and solitude can bring us toward the truth. An empty hand outstretched has room to grasp onto the truth. Growing up my mom use to sing this simple ”Shaker tune” when she would play piano. It reminds me time and time again to simplify my life:

‘Tis the gift to be simple, ’tis the gift to be free

‘Tis the gift to come down where we ought to be,

And when we find ourselves in the place just right,

‘Twill be in the valley of love and delight.

When true simplicity is gained,

To bow and to bend we shan’t be ashamed,

To turn, turn will be our delight,

Till by turning, turning we come ’round right.

May you simplify your life so you can have room to grasp the truth God has for you. May you find yourself in the valley of love and delight.
 
In Christ’s love and service,
Pastor Paul Marzahn


Community – Courage

“Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be courageous; be strong. Do everything in love.” 1 Corinthians‬ ‭16:13-14‬ ‭
 
I was recently in line at the Department of Motor Vehicles in Apple Valley transferring the title of my mom’s car. She has not driven it for years so has decided to give it to my nieces who recently turned 16. Nothing like a beat up Buick to help train in rookie drivers. Like most in the room I grabbed a number when I walked in and waited my turn. I grabbed 96 and they just called 86 so I knew I had a wait time ahead of me.
 
While waiting at the DMV, I was approached by a young man who seemed nervous. He walked cautiously over to me and asked hesitantly, “are you Pastor Paul?” It was my day off and so I hadn’t shaved and I was wearing casual clothes with a baseball cap. I was kinda going “incognito” and I was surprised he recognized me. I responded that I was indeed Pastor Paul and he seemed relieved that he had not bothered a total stranger. He introduced himself and mentioned he was a part of our Minneapolis CROSSROADS Campus several years ago. He let me know the ministry of CROSSROADS and our non-profit partnership with Life Rebuilders changed his life. Right there in line at the DMV he told me his testimony of getting caught up in drugs and being far from God. Our church and other life coaches helped him get back on the right path. He explained how he is now employed as a contractor and he was in line because he just bought a truck for his new business. This new friend hugged me, we exchanged contact info and now we are talking about ways he can help others.
 
I was reflecting on courage today and this young man came to mind. He had the courage to walk across the room and talk to me. He showed courage to open up and explain his past failures and ways he overcame them. He had the courage to share his testimony of Jesus and the power of transformation in a lobby full of strangers at the DMV. He had the courage to overcome an addiction to drugs and the courage to ask for help from others. He had the courage to start over and now the courage to help others who are struggling.
 
Our culture sometimes lifts up courage on the battlefield or in war. Those who serve are to be commended. Yet, courage in the everyday battles of life also need to be celebrated. We are reminded in God’s word a life of faith in Jesus is not easy. May we all stand firm in our faith and be courageous. May we all remember to do everything in love so we bring forth the Kingdom of God on earth as it is in heaven.
 
In Christ’s love and service,
Pastor Paul Marzahn